Darren

English

About Me
I'm 51, 5'10", 170 lbs, blue eyes, blonde hair, and a bachelor's in music. I’m a songwriter, a storyteller, and someone who’s curious about everything. I like a good laugh, a deep conversation, and I’m not afraid to be a little silly when the mood strikes. Writing my first novel has tested my patience — but also shown me how determined I can be.

I’m a lifelong crossdresser — not for show, and not to attract attention. I rarely go out fully dressed — not because I don’t want to, but because the world doesn’t always feel welcoming. At home, I get to express a part of me that’s softer and more feminine, even if you might not always see that at first glance. For me, intimacy is about giving - there's something deeply feminine in making a man feel desired, appreciated, and completely satisfied. I'm not looking to reverse roles or take charge in the bedroom

I’m hoping to build something steady and meaningful with someone who sees me as I am.

I'm interested in a man between 36 and 60 who’s healthy, emotionally grounded, kind, loyal, and sharp-witted. I value emotional maturity, thoughtfulness, and someone who’s naturally protective in the best way. If you’re handy, reliable, and a little bit bold — even better.

I’m not looking to rush anything. Just hoping to meet someone honest and open-minded, who’s also ready to share something real.

I’m not open to anyone who smokes cigarettes (I used to and don’t want the temptation). Marijuana is fine. I’m also not looking to connect with anyone currently in a relationship or marriage.

Aries

Slim

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Never Married

Yes - Not At Home

No

Smile

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Dark Blonde

No pets

No

College Degree

Full-time

Medical / Health

Family Support Specialist

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

Alone

All Is Calm

Yes - But Non Tobacco

Yes - Socially

Cool Dude

Anti-social, Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Reserved, Shy, Strange

Arts & Crafts, Camping, Computers, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Reading, Travel, Tv

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies

Someplace where we could talk privately and get to know one another

Dating men. I have only ever dated women and it didn't go great.

Friendly, Cool, Goofy

Christian

Never

Liberal

To die as an old woman. I don't consider myself transgendered but I think I'd rather be an old woman than an old man.

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Slapstick

Cartoons, Documentaries, Movies, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Thriller

Classical, Country, Electronic, Folk, Jazz, Pop, Rock, I'm A Recording Artist

Auto-biography, Biography, Comic, Fiction, History, Music, Philosophy, Supernatural, Science Fiction, I'm An Author

Two or more people having a deep, meaningful conversation

Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

Intelligence, caring and a sense of safety.

Date, Intimate, Committed